Etiquette is about valuing and showing respect for others and living with integrity.
Children
need to learn proper manners and social skills now more than ever.
Competition to get into good colleges and to get good jobs is becoming
increasingly tough and those young people whose social skills are well
developed will stand out in the crowd and have a leg up on their peers.
Knowing the proper social graces allows children to feel confident and
poised.
Etiquette training
teaches the importance of expanding one's world view beyond one's own
self and thinking about the thoughts, feelings and needs of those around
us. Treating others with dignity and respect creates a society that is
civil and thoughtful.
Adults
must remember that even though today's children seem very mature, they
aren't, they have just been bombarded with adult content and in turn
will imitate what they see and push the limits as far as adults will
allow. With the advent of technology, impressionable children are
exposed to limitless amounts of content that can drastically alter their
behavior.
It is a mistake
to think that children will just pick up good manners and social skills.
The rules of etiquette must actively be taught. Starting when children
are small, the basic building blocks of etiquette must be put into
place. Over time, with practice and gentle reinforcement, children will
develop their skills, and by the time they reach adulthood they will
have flawless manners.
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